Never give up who you are for the person you are with. It will only backfire and make both of you feel miserable. Have the courage to be who you are, and more. Never give up who you are for the person you are with. Have the courage to be who you are and, most importantly, let your partner be who they are.
Those are the two people who fell in love with each other in the first place. The success of your relationship is basically determined before you start the relationship. Start with whoever you choose. The key to inner peace is to take 100% responsibility for what is in your control and to relinquish 100% responsibility for what is not in your control. Join the more than 225,000 people who receive high-quality content that arouses curiosity every week.
Therefore, never involve a third party in any of your relationships to try to resolve minor problems or misunderstandings. When I got married almost three years ago, at the wedding reception I asked some of the older and wiser people who were in attendance to give me some advice from their own relationships to make sure my wife and I didn't shit in (the same) bed. Just as causing pain to the muscles allows them to grow stronger again, introducing some pain into their relationship through vulnerability strengthens the relationship. I could give you a lot of advice here with similar examples, but I am a firm believer that sometimes advice is effective and sometimes it's not.
